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Unconditional Love and Time Commitment 

While having a dog can be incredibly rewarding, it also comes with some challenges. Here are four of the best things about having a dog as well as potential downsides or worst things about having a dog.

Master D. M. Lee | 7/29/2023

Anthony van Dyck, James Stuart, Duke of Richmond and Lennox, Oil on canvas MMA 89.15.16

Van Dyck's portrait of the Duke of Richmond and Lennox depicts the duke as the epitome of aristocratic composure and casual ease. The duke's blonde lovelock cascades over his lace collar, and he proudly displays the emblem of the Order of the Garter, England's highest order of chivalry. This portrait may commemorate his investiture in November 1633.

The presence of a greyhound resting its muzzle on the duke's hip symbolizes the virtues of loyalty and alludes to the noble pursuit of hunting. These symbols reflect aspects of the duke's character and interests.

Unconditional Love and Companionship:  (PRO)

Dogs are known for their unwavering loyalty and unconditional love. They form strong emotional bonds with their owners, providing constant companionship and support. Their affectionate nature can significantly improve your emotional well-being, reducing stress, anxiety, and feelings of loneliness.

Jan Steen , Merry Company on a Terrace, c. 1670, Oil on canvas, MMA 58.89

Jan Steen was a master of self-deprecating humor, and his paintings often depicted his own chaotic household. In the painting "Merry Company on a Terrace," the focal point is Steen's wife, who gazes at the viewer while holding an empty wineglass. Steen himself is positioned at the far left, his face flushed from drinking and wearing a comical hat. Alongside him is Hans Worst, a theatrical character recognizable from a nearby work by Hals, sporting a sausage in his cap.

The painting is a humorous and relatable representation of family life, and it captures the chaos and disorder that can sometimes be found in even the most well-intentioned households. The phrase "a household by Jan Steen" is still used in the Netherlands today to describe a chaotic and disorderly home, a testament to the enduring impact of Steen's work.

Time Commitment:  (Con)

Dogs require a significant time commitment. They need daily exercise, mental stimulation, and social interaction to stay happy and healthy. If you have a busy lifestyle or travel frequently, it can be challenging to provide the necessary care and attention that a dog requires.


Jean Honoré Fragonard, The Love Letter, c. 1770, Oil on canvas, MMA 49.7.49

In Fragonard's paintings, the degree of "finish" is relative. In his painting "The Love Letter," the artist applies energetic brushstrokes of varying thickness over a brown tone. These brushstrokes skillfully capture the sunlight that illuminates the central elements of the canvas: the woman's cap, powdered face, flowers, dress, and the dog.

It is important to view this painting not as a traditional portrait, but as a genre scene. Genre scenes depict everyday life, and "The Love Letter" captures a significant theme of the eighteenth century: the love letter. The appreciation of this artwork goes beyond the subject matter; it is also about admiring Fragonard's painting technique and how he skillfully depicts the scene.

Increased Physical Activity: (PRO)

Owning a dog encourages you to lead a more active lifestyle. Regular walks, playtime, and outdoor activities with your furry friend can help improve your physical fitness. The daily exercise is not only beneficial for the dog's health but also for yours, promoting cardiovascular health and overall well-being.


Jean-Baptiste Greuze, Princess Varvara Nikolaevna Gagarina, c. 1780, Oil on canvas MMA 65.242.3

Jean-Baptiste Greuze never traveled to Russia, so it is likely that Varvara Nikolaevna Golitsyna who married married Prince Sergei Sergeyevich Gagarin visited Paris shortly before or after her wedding. The portrait shows her in a formal pose, and her dress resembles the dresses worn by Marie Antoinette in the early 1780s. Tragically, she passed away at the young age of thirty-nine.

Financial Costs: (CON)

Owning a dog can be expensive. Beyond the initial cost of acquiring the dog, there are ongoing expenses for food, grooming, veterinary care, vaccinations, training, toys, and other supplies. Unexpected medical emergencies can also be financially draining.

Angelica Kauffmann, Twelfth Earl and Countess of Derby, c. 1776, Oil on canvas,  MMA 59.189.2

A young aristocratic family poses for a portrait in a room decorated with classical allusions. The countess's dress hints at a classical influence, while her husband wears a stylish costume reminiscent of the fashion seen in Van Dyck's portraits from a century earlier. The painting presents a fashionable portrayal of domestic happiness, but the marriage was far from harmonious. Two years after the portrait was painted, the countess left her husband for a lover. After her death, he remarried the actress Elizabeth Farren, whose portrait is also at The Met.

Enhanced Social Life: (PRO)

Dogs are natural icebreakers and can help improve your social life. While walking your dog in the neighborhood or visiting dog parks, you're likely to meet other dog owners, giving you opportunities to socialize and make new friends. Dog-related events and gatherings can create a sense of community among pet owners.

François Hubert Drouais , Boy with a Black Spaniel, c. 1767, Oil on canvas MMA 49.7.48

Art critic Denis Diderot rarely praised renowned portraitist Drouais, but he did admire Drouais's skill in painting children. Diderot particularly appreciated how Drouais brought life and depth to their eyes, making them appear to be gazing and smiling simultaneously.

In this painting, Drouais skillfully captures the same captivating eyes in both the child and a puppy cradled in the child's arms. This painting is likely an authentic replica of Drouais's work exhibited at the Salon of 1767, dated 1766.

Responsibility and Limitations: (CON)

Dogs are living beings that depend on their owners for their well-being. This responsibility means you need to be available to care for your dog consistently. It may limit your freedom to travel, go out spontaneously, or even work long hours without considering your pet's needs.

Giacomo Ceruti, A Woman with a Dog, c.1740, Oil on canvas MMA 30.15

Giacomo Ceruti was nicknamed "Pitocchetto" (the little beggar) for his realistic paintings of people from the lower classes. This painting shows a maidservant carrying her mistress's dog. The painting is direct and unidealized, and it combines humor in the depiction of the spoiled animal and the woman's unflattering display of teeth. However, there is also an unexpected dignity conveyed through her direct gaze and confidently outstretched hand. Ceruti's personality remains somewhat mysterious, but his artworks were eagerly collected by enthusiasts across northern Italy.

Improved Mental Health: 

Interacting with dogs has been shown to have positive effects on mental health. Spending time with a dog can boost serotonin and dopamine levels, leading to reduced stress and an overall sense of happiness. Additionally, the responsibility of caring for a dog can provide structure and purpose, which can be especially beneficial for individuals dealing with mental health issues.


Giacomo Ceruti , An Old Man with a Dog, c. 1740, Oil on canvas MMA 2019.263

In this painting, we see an elderly man gently cradling his pug close to his face, reminiscent of how we might pose for a photograph with our beloved pets. After relocating to Venice in 1736, he was exposed to the pan-European fascination with foreign attire, which is subtly referenced in the acorn-shaped buttons on the man's coat. While departing from his earlier grittier subjects, Ceruti continued to skillfully capture the expressive and sentimental aspects of individual faces. An artistic touch is evident as Ceruti inscribes delicate swirls into the man's beard using the wet paint on the handle end of his brush."

Damage and Mess: (CON)

Dogs, especially puppies and young dogs, may chew on furniture, shoes, and other household items. They can shed fur, track mud, and create messes indoors. Training and proper management can help mitigate these issues, but they are still potential challenges to consider.


Of course, there are many other wonderful aspects of having a dog as a pet, but these four are among the most commonly cited and cherished by dog owners. It's essential to remember that dog ownership comes with responsibilities as well, including providing proper care, training, and attention to ensure your dog has a happy and healthy life. It's crucial to thoroughly assess your lifestyle, resources, and commitment level before bringing a dog into your home. While dogs can bring immense joy and love to your life, being aware of the potential downsides allows you to make an informed decision and ensure that you can provide a happy and healthy life for your canine companion. Responsible dog ownership involves overcoming these challenges with patience, dedication, and love.